CAN MONEY BUY HAPPINESS?

Maybe yes, maybe no. BUT, working with women for over a decade, I see how the lack of financial resources can result in fear, worry, disempowerment, lack of freedom to make your own decisions, staying in unloving relationships, and very often physical and emotional abuse. 

Perhaps money doesn’t buy happiness; but, as a coach helping women to build their financial freedom, I see that money certainly has the power to bring personal freedom, strength, opportunities to grow as a person… and very often even to leave an abusive relationship. 

MANY WOMEN ARE DISEMPOWERED IN THE AREA OF MONEY. 

They feel a need to ask for permission to buy a pair of shoes or to write a check and invest in their own business without their partner’s approval. They too often feel small and insignificant. 

I know it from experience. 

I was brought up by a single mother in a home where there was only enough money for the bare necessities. In my first marriage, I gave all my power away in the area of money because I was not strong enough to fight for my rights. When I moved to the US as a single mother to escape this bad marriage, my freedom came with a high, emotional price tag and no financial support. With my MBA degree and years of experience in business I was making only enough to pay the bills and my daughter’s school tuition.  

For years I had to bury all my desires to pursue my passions and grow as a person because I could not afford it.

TO ME, LACK OF EXPANSION IN MY LIFE FEELS LIKE DEATH.

Yet, I lived this life for years because I had no money to invest in myself.

The turning point for me was when I finally made the decision to work with a coach. She helped me transform my own beliefs about money and the keys to success. These new beliefs became the foundation of my successful coaching business.

Using my own experience and world-class tools to empower other women to build their own financial freedom become my mission and true purpose. 

SO, IS IT TIME TO TRANSFORM YOUR MONEY STORY? 

Today I’m sharing with you my 7 step process that I use in coaching my private clients.

You too can use the same steps to transform your money story starting today. 

HOW TO TRANSFORM YOUR MONEY STORY – A 7 STEP PROCESS

1. FIRST, I INVITE YOU TO WRITE YOUR MONEY BELIEFS ON PAPER. This must be done in writing, not in your head. Example: I can’t make money. I’m not worthy of making money.

2. NEXT, EXAMINE WHERE YOUR BELIEFS CAME FROM.
Are they really yours or somebody else’s? Did you inherit them from your parents, grandparents, or partner? Write down the first time you’ve heard each belief. How old were you? 

3. THE OLD BELIEFS CAN’T BE TRANSFORMED UNTIL THEY ARE CHALLENGED! Ask yourself, are these beliefs really true? If these beliefs are true for you, are they also true for others? Think about someone who is successful who you know personally, or a public figure like Oprah, JLo, and other people who did not grow up with a silver spoon in their mouth. 

4. NOW, WRITE DOWN THE OPPOSITE OF YOUR ORIGINAL BELIEF.  “I know how to make money.”, “I’m worthy of all good coming to my life and that includes money.” Is this statement true or truer? Remember, YOU GET WHAT YOU FOCUS ON. If you keep believing and repeating your old story, nothing will change. Trust me on that one!

5. CONDITION YOUR NEW BELIEFS. One of the fastest ways to transform limiting beliefs is through using affirmations and mantras. Find evidence in your life for these mantras to be true, and live by them daily.

6. READ WEALTH CONSCIOUSNESS BOOKS. When I was working on transferring my own money story, the first thing I did was read and listen to books that helped me build my new money story. These books taught me how very successful people created fortunes. One of the most powerful books that I gift to every single of my private clients in my coaching program is, “Think and Grow Rich”. This book reveals the secrets of all the principles you can start using immediately to build your new money consciousness. 

7. PRACTICE GRATITUDE BY WRITING THANK YOU NOTES. My clients and I have journals that are filled with thank you notes. I believe that our gratitude is the fastest way to manifest our desires. 

IS IT TIME TO TRANSFORM YOUR MONEY STORY?

Are you working hard, using all your marketing tools and efforts, yet, you can’t seem to make money? These are the signs that your old money story is still running the show. 

If you are ready to step into the next level of success, financial freedom, and living your true purpose reach out to me. 

Schedule your private session to discover how I can help you transform your money story. 

ABOUT THE AUTHOR

RENIA M. ORR IS AN INTERNATIONAL BUSINESS STRATEGIST, SUCCESS COACH, SPEAKER, AND THE FOUNDER OF LDV ELITE. 
SHE IS A SPEAKER FOR FORTUNE 500 COMPANIES, APPEARS ON NBC TV AND OTHER TELEVISION PROGRAMMING, AND IS AN ACCOMPLISHED AUTHOR.

Renia M. Orr

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